15 SIGNS THAT YOUR PARTNER
December 24, 20091. Your Partner Changes His/Her Appearance: Changes in your partner’s
appearance may be a sign that your partner is cheating such as dressing
nicer or in a way that makes him/her look more attractive than usual or if
your partner starts doing things to make his or herself look better like
losing weight, working-out or working out more. Another example of
changing appearances is if he/she changes his/her hairstyle and/or hair
color. (This is always the #1 sign for women who are having an affair.)
2. Your Partner Has a Healthy and Exuberant Glow To Him/Her: Does
your partner have a healthy and exuberant glow both in his or her face
and in his/her aura or energy? In fact, if your partner looks similar to how
he/she looked and felt when the two of you first met and started going
together this is also a sign that your partner may be cheating.
3. Your Partner Seems Distant or Far-Away: Does your partner seem
distant or far away like he/she has emotionally, energetically and
physically disconnected from you? (This is usually the #1 sign that your
partner has found someone). This distance is probably because your
partner is either totally into the person he/she is having the affair with or is
thinking about him/her and imagining being with him or her all the time.
Disconnecting from you may also mean that your partner has found what
he/she is looking for in the other person so your partner has released
his/her efforts from trying to get it from you.
4. Your Partner is No Longer Fighting With You: This may be a sign if
your partner is suddenly no longer fighting or arguing with you or if your
relationship is past the point of fighting (numbed out, shutdown or if your
partner has already written you off before) you will no longer feel the
intensity and frustration radiating underneath the surface in regards to
issues in your relationship that used to bother your partner.
5. Your Partner Seems Happy and Content: It may be a sign if your
partner seems more happy and content than usual and he/she is not
complaining about anything. Your partner if he or she is cheating, is
getting his or her needs met at least for the moment, so he or she is
satisfied and has nothing to complain about.
6. Your Partner Takes Up New Hobbies, Interests or Sporting Activities:
Your partner takes up new hobbies, interests or sporting activities but to
your surprise he/she doesn’t tell you about it.
tired to have sex a lot more than usual or has sudden spontaneous urges
to have more passionate than normal sex with you. Often your partner
may go back and forth between being too tired and spontaneous as well.
In addition, your partner may also try to introduce new ways of making
love to you.
8. Your Partner Has a Sudden Interest In Your Schedule: It may be a sign
that your partner is cheating if your partner has a sudden and then
reoccurring interest in your schedule and reacts with surprise or irritation if
you suddenly change your plans.
9. Your Partner’s Account of His/Her Day Is Either Overly Detailed or
Really Vague: Your partner’s explanation of his/her day has changed by
either becoming very calculated and detailed or very vague and he/she
will change topics very quickly.
10. Your Partner’s Explanations Of Where He/She Has Been Isn’t Making
Sense: An example would be if your partner says he/she stopped off for a
big grocery shop on the way home from work and that is why he/she is so
late, yet your partner only came home with a few items.
11. Your Partner is Using More Gas and Mileage On His/Her Vehicle: If
your partner has the same routine everyday but there is a lot more miles
or kilometers on the odometer and more gas being used up this is often a
tell-tale sign of an affair.
12.Your Partner’s Car is More Immaculate Than Usual: If your partner
seems to be cleaning the interior of the car more often and is using air
fresheners this may also be a sign.
13.Your Partner’s Friends Don’t See Your Partner As Often: Your
partner’s friends don’t know where your partner is most of the time or has
not seen or got together with him or her as often anymore.
14.Both Yours and Your Partner’s Friends Are Acting Guarded and
Uneasy Around You: If your friends, your partner’s friends or mutual
friends know about your partner having an affair there is always the
dilemma about whether to tell you or not. Whether they are undecided or
have decided not to tell you, unless they are really good actors/actresses -
they are going to be guarded, watch what they say, look guilty or
uncomfortable around you.
commercials, TV shows and movies all the time where the partner cheats
and then out of guilt buys his/her significant other gifts likes flowers or
jewelry. Your partner may even offer to take you out for a night on the
town and do something that you would like to do that he/she would
normally have no interest in.
7. Your Partner’s Sex Routine Has Changed: Your partner is either too
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